(This post is quite different from my usual, but please hang in there with me because I would love your help. Thank you!)
I was talking to a nurse on the phone, wondering if I should come in to see my OB/GYN, the one who I saw through my pregnancies and deliveries with both Asher and Elsie. The nurse said that what I was describing was “post tubal ligation syndrome”.
This is not what I was expecting to hear even though I had been researching online and feeling more and more certain that my tubal ligation was to blame for how awful I’m feeling. Not long after Elsie was born, I had this heart-gut feeling that my increased anxiety and depression (and some other physical issues) were due to having had my tubes tied when I had my c-section. But even though I felt strongly that having a tubal has caused something, I didn’t understand what it was. To be honest, I didn’t research exactly how a tubal ligation works before I had one, I was thinking of it in very simple terms. Attach clips to tubes. Don’t get pregnant. I didn’t think having my tubes tied did anything hormonal, so I couldn’t figure out why my gut was telling me my symptoms and the tubal were related. But then the nurse said “post tubal ligation syndrome” and I was stunned by validation.
Not only had the nurse’s words shocked me (I was all, UM, there’s a syndrome for this?), but I had also talked with several women who also had tubal ligations that resulted in some kind of problem for them, many of which were very similar problems to mine.
So, I headed into an appointment with my OB/GYN expecting her to be on the same page and when she wasn’t, I felt defeated and confused. She said she wasn’t sure what the nurse was referring to and hadn’t seen any other women coming in with the complaints that I have. She suggested that the way I’m feeling may simply be a result of being in the postpartum period and breastfeeding. She did admit that tubal ligations become problematic for some women because they can cut off the blood supply to the ovaries, causing early menopause.
Super.
I had no idea that was a possibility when I signed my life away and then had my tubes tied. And no matter what any doctor tells me, I’m convinced that what the nurse said is true–this is common and a really big deal, and I believe it goes beyond the possibility of early menopause–the issues I’m having include menopausal symptoms and more. So I’m writing about it here for two reasons. I want to hear from any of you who have had your tubes tied, and I want to encourage women to do a lot of research before having their tubes tied.
Because I’m currently struggling with a myriad of complications, I want to do a little research of my very own. If you or someone you know has had a tubal ligation, could you email me? I’d like to send you a few questions. I would be forever grateful for your input and time. I know that I’m on to something here and I need your help.
heatheroftheeo(at)gmail(dot)com
I’ve already talked to women (without filling their minds with all kinds of suspicions of what can happen after a tubal) who report my same symptoms and other symptoms similar to one another’s, and they had no idea it could be because of their tubal ligation. Someone close to me was even recently telling me that she went into early menopause and was struggling with numerous symptoms and was put on hormone replacement treatments. And I was all, YOU HAD YOUR TUBES TIED, DIDN’T YOU? and she was all, Yeah, why? And I said something like ACK OMG MY DOC SAID EARLY MENOPAUSE!
Now, even though it really sucks to be going through this, it’s good to know WHY I’ve been feeling like I have. And even though it’s really hard, I’m grateful to be able to talk about this and to embark on learning more about it.
Two disclaimers:
1. Obviously, I’m not a medical professional. I’m just a woman telling her story. I’m also not doctor-bashing. I have no idea why women aren’t told that there’s a possibility that these symptoms may arise if they get their tubes tied. I’m still trying to wrap my head around it and learning as I go.
2. I am in no way telling anyone what to do with their bodies. Read my words and take ‘em or leave ‘em. I know it’s important to have this option for birth control available. I’m simply hoping to make people more aware of the “after-effects” of a tubal ligation and to discover the truth for myself. (BUT. PLEASE do your research before you make your decision about a tubal ligation.)
Thank you for reading about my freaking fallopian tubes, ya’ll. Who knows? Maybe some day soon I’ll tell you all about my spleen or my gall bladder or something. You are so lucky.
(There is now a Part 2 to this post which shares my myriad of symptoms and those of others I’ve heard from. Many many others.)
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Wow, Heather! I’m 42 and have never heard of this before. I didn’t have my tubes tied, but I am in early menopause…luckily my symptoms thus far have been minor.
I hope you get some good responses, and some answers. Hugs.
Ugh, indeed. I have no experience with this, but maybe Gina (the feminist breeder) would know. This is just the sort of thing she knows about.
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Oh, thank you Pamela! I’ll check with Gina. What a great suggestion. I appreciate it!
Wow Heather, I had no idea a tubal ligation had such side effects. I have been considering this for myself in May when our last one arrives. Thank you for giving me something to think about.
Deanna,
This is one of the reasons that I’m talking about this. I want to help women be sure to really check into this. If I would have known it was even a remote possibility that my hormones would be all messed up, I never would have done it. We struggle enough as women, no? :) All the best to you and yours…
Heather, please feel free to email me.
I had my tubes tied after having my twins and have regretted it every day since. I definitely suffer from p.t.s. and wish like heck I never had it.done. (I tell everyone I know to have hubbub get a snip instead…)
Sooo many awful side effects, including early menopause. (& facial hair growth!)
Hate it.
You aren’t alone. Sadly.
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Oh Debi, I’m sorry. BUH!
How did you know it was from the tubal? How did you know it’s a “thing”-PTS? Would you ever have a reversal? Sheesh, I’m full of questions. Thank you!!!
Wow! I did not know any of this. Thank you so much for putting this out there. I know I wouldn’t have researched this if I ever decided to have it done. I just figured it was a simple procedure and then that was the end of it.
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I had my tubes tied in 2002, after a c-section with my third child. I’d never heard of this syndrome until I read your post, and I don’t seem to have any of the symptoms. Not menopausal or with weird hormonal symptoms.
I don’t know what that means, except maybe that it doesn’t happen to everyone. If that’s encouraging at all. Feel free to email me if you have questions.
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Thanks, Heather, for exploring this here. I had no idea. Haven’t had tubes tied and won’t, but people need to know.
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I had my tubes tied after my EJ, so far I haven’t noticed anything, but please feel free to email me and I will help any way I can.
You know, mommy, I don’t know anything about tubal ligation, but you should definitely trust your gut and find a doctor who will listen to you. You know when something is wrong with your body. This must be so frustrating.
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I had my tubes tied post triplets… you can ask me anything.
Last week my husband, my ob, and I were discussing what to do after our seventh — and second high risk — is born this summer. He mentioned this very thing and that he has many women come in with these complaints and he recommends a different path than tubal. To hear you confirm what he was saying makes me grateful for a fantastic doc!
I’m so reassured hearing this. Thank you, Marlowe. It’s good to know there are docs out there that see these problems and take them seriously.
All the best to you and yours!
Tubes tied in 2009 after birth of twins (my second and third children). Like you I didn’t do much research prior to the procedure. When my periods returned they were very heavy and irregular (shorter cycles). Read some conflicting information about causes. There doesn’t seem to be a lot of info available for post-tubal changes.
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It’s true. There isn’t a lot of information, especially medical literature, studies, research, etc. Hard to find, anyway.
I have had mine tied if you want to email me.
Oh, Heather, I’m sorry you are going through yet another crisis! It just doesn’t seem fair. Early menopause whilst nursing has got to be about as hormonal as it gets. NOT. FUN.
Haven’t heard of this before, but glad you mentioned it because I was (possibly still am?) planning on having my tubes tied after baby is delivered in April. We’ve talked about vasectomy for husband and what not, but with me having a c-section already, it just seemed simpler to have it done right then and there while my fallopian tubes are open on the table, know what I mean? I’ll be sure to do some more research though, as well as have nice and friendly heart to heart with my doctor, whom I love and trust immensely. So, thank you for the heads up! I hope you find some answers for your own self very, very soon.
That’s what I thought too, Jenny. Since they’d already be in there, they may as well just clip up those tubes! I encourage you to thoroughly check into this before doing it. Not everyone has complications but it is very common. You wouldn’t believe how many emails I’m getting. It’s not at all fun to live with, so….
I don’t mean to scare people at all…I just want people to be as informed and careful as possible. Maybe some things are just not meant to be done to our bodies. I’m no expert, but that’s what my heart-gut tells me.
All the best to you, mama.
I didn’t have my tubes tied. My next door neighbor did a tubal ligation because her spouse was unwilling to have a vasectomy. He now says if he’d had any idea how much it would impact her hormones, he would have done the Big V. The Big V isn’t ideal either- my spouse had it done and has lived with some tenderness ever since. I totally regret pushing him to have a vasectomy. Guess we shouldn’t have opted for either of the permanent options (especially since we had infertility in the first place- we were just formally closing a door that hadn’t really ever ‘opened’ without doctors and meds prying it open!)
I had my tubes tied, in September of 08. I started having odd symptoms too. I would love to talk to you further about this! Now I’m off to google post tubal ligation syndrome. :p
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Ack, Heather, I’m sorry. And I’m really, really grateful that you wrote this post. I’ve been thinking about speaking up on all the issues I’ve had after a similarly “harmless” procedure for woman (a D&C) and advising women to research more before they have the procedure and I’ve been afraid a bit that people would think I’m telling them what to do.
Good luck with all you have going on. I haven’t even had kids yet, so certainly can’t relate on this particular problem, but have had other medical problems recently. I would suggest that you find another OB/GYN who will take your symptoms seriously and work with you to find some treatments that will help.
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I haven’t had this, so I don’t have any real wisdom. But I do know several people who have, and at least one of them had “some complications” afterwards. Maybe you could get a second opinion from another doctor? Have you thought about having it reversed? (that might be too personal, and if so, please don’t answer it!)
I just want to tell you thank you for writing about this. I really believe that using a blog to give voice to the hard things, or the not-often-discussed things can be a real blessing to other people.
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Tracie, Yes. I do want to have it reversed. I’ll be looking for a new to me OBGYN that will do it. My current one said she would not. And yes, I so hope writing about this will help people. I’d love to help even one person avoid this.
I have been considering getting my tubes tied for a long time, because I have 4 children, (and we are adopting a 5th!). I tried to have it done while my husband was deployed and it didn’t happen because the doc essentially said I needed my husband’s permission…… yeah. I was kinda mad about that! But after reading this I’m wondering if I shouldn’t be grateful instead!! I ended up getting a non-hormonal IUD (paraguard) because any hormones at all mess me up so I couldn’t take the pill etc. It’s good for 10 years so maybe I will just stick with that and leave my tubes alone. Sorry you are going through this but thanks for the heads up!!!!
I just emailed you. I had my tubes tied at 37, after birth of last baby. Have had issues ever since. All detailed in my email. So thankful you are doing this post.
WOW, so glad that Suebob linked this!
Scary, sad, fascinating.
Good Luck! [which, uh, I know isn't maybe the most helpful, but, Wishing you well with finding betterness.]
So frustrating when your doctor is dissmissive of your fears and concerns. I’m sure she didn’t mean to communicate that, but still. Wonder if it would be worth it to see someone else? It would be nice to have a doctor who could walk this road with you and provide guidance and support. So sorry to hear that you’re struggling.
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Yes. I’ll definitely be seeing someone else. She’s been good to me in the past but seems unsure or kind of guarded about this. So…yeah, we’ll move on :)
Had my tubes tied 3 1/2 years ago after my fourth was born. It never occurred to me that the worsening depression and wild hormone swings could be as a result of the tubal rather than just a function of being 41 and overwhelmed. Happy to answer any questions.
Had tubes tied in November 2008 during an extremely traumatic birth situation. Lots of fall out, but not clear which parts are from which thing, if you know what I mean. Plus, it’s not as if my menstrual life had been all roses and sunshine before kids. Please feel free to contact me if you want to ask questions, talk, whatever.
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Hey Heather. Sorry you’re having a difficult time! I had my tubes tied March 2006. Would love to answer your questions, if you still need participants.
XO – Ashlei
What a bummer!!! This might sound weird but it might help for you to see a naturopath. They might be able to take things from a different perspective and tell you how it’s affecting your body wholistically. Either way, hope it gets better!
No that’s not weird, Sarah. My sister has a good one and I plan to work with her on this. Thank you!
I haven’t had my tubes tied, but I always assumed I would if I got pregnant one more time. I’d never heard of this. It looks like I have some research to do, too.
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I had my tubes tied nearly 10 years ago. I definitely had a lot of emotional issues after, but I can’t recall any physical ones. Please feel free to ask me anything. And I’m so sorry you’re having trouble.
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Hello, I had my tubes tied 8 years ago after I my 4th child was born. I have definitely seen a difference in my cycle and in my moods. :o/ Not good changes either. Thanks for looking into this and giving information.
A woman in our church had an eptopic pregnancy years after having her tubes tied…and almost died because of it. She ended up having an emergency hysterectomy to save her life. The doctors said this was because of the tubal ligation. I haven’t done any research on the emotional/physical side effects of tubal ligation, but this woman’s experience was enough to keep me far away from ever considering it.
Side note: You can always have them untied!
This sounds similar in many ways to my struggle with using hormonal birth control a few years ago. It is part of what has led me to such a passion about women’s health. We have a right to know all the facts and to make decisions for ourselves along side our doctors about our bodies! Haha, see? Passion! I’ve been praying for you since you talked about your depression and anxiety a little bit ago, and I will continue to. I hope at least knowing the source of the problems leads to some healing.
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I’m getting quite passionate about this, too, Shannon! You are so right. We have to listen to ourselves and stand by our needs. Thank you for your prayers!
I have not had my tubes tied, but I do want to tell you that there are several things OB/GYNs do not tell, or are not up to date on. Tubal Ligation is one of them. I’ve known several women to have tubals or hysterectomies. All have suffered some variation of pre-menopause, depression, general anxiety, or panic disorders.
Case in point: I am a DES daughter, and it took me developing cervical cancer (recurrance) at 19 before someone told me 1) that I was a DES daughter, and that 2) I should have never been placed on birth control (you know that caveat of “certain types of cancer?” YEAH.). Now I’ve cut all kinds of hormones from my life (no soy, no bovine growth hormone, no birth control, etc) and I have been in remission for nearly 11 years.
Also, I will never go on HRT. I watched an interview with a doctor several years ago, and one quote from her has stuck with me: “No woman has ever died from menopause. No woman has died from hot flashes. But, women die of breast cancer, uterine and ovarian cancer every day.”
I can’t tell you or other readers what will work best for you, but I do believe (with all of my heart) that the more we mess with the system…
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Wow – I have been feeling the same since my tubal in June, 2010. I wasn’t told of any of these sides effects and have had an increase in anxiety ever since. Would love to learn and discuss some more.
I had mine done three years ago this March, and have regretted it ever since. I was a poor candidate for the Pill (sent my blood pressure sky rocketing) and thought this was the best option at the time, the whole thing was handled badly. I wound up having to deliver five weeks early and my OB seemed to think it was just fine to waive the 30 day wait period and post date the consent forms. I would get a reversal in a minute and wish I had been better informed on how the tubal would wreak havoc on my moods and cycle. And to the previous poster who mentioned facial hair, YES! I never linked it to my tubal but it makes perfect sense.
I had my tubal ligation in 2003 (and told them to make it irreversible, so they threw away the excess and cauterized the ends instead of rolling it up and clipping) so I would never get pregnant again. If I die and hubby remarries, I wouldn’t have a problem with him fathering more children, he makes great kids :), but I know I don’t want to birth anymore of my own so that’s why I wanted it instead of him getting the V (plus, I know a couple who got pregnant after he had a vasectomy and then AGAIN after his SECOND vasectomy; she got a TL after that one).
The options I thought I had at the time were me getting a tubal ligation, hubby getting a vasectomy, IUD (I didn’t like that for me when I read about it; maybe it was the side effects or complications that can arise from it, I can’t remember), birth control pills (that doesn’t come with as good of a guarantee to not getting pregnant as a TL, I’m not consistent in pill taking, and don’t want to take them until by body’s done with menopause that can last up to 10 years), condoms (have you watched FRIENDS to know their track record ain’t that great either), or abstinence (um, no, I’m married).
The symptoms I’ve had since (and perhaps prior, but I wasn’t hyper aware then) point toward a thyroid issue (both grandmothers had issues), perhaps it’s hormonal, part of being a mom, aging, environment, food quality/altering, menopause, or any myriad of causes. The trick is assigning these changes/issues to one source; maybe there are others, maybe combined with something else is what’s causing it. You are right about how little research can be found regarding some women’s health issues.
I’ve heard of all sorts of hormone problems from tubal ligations (tying/clamping tubes), vasectomies (yes, even men struggle with hormone issues afterwards), and the newer procedure where they “cap” your fallopian tubes with a plastic cap (not sure about the exact name for this procedure). I think of it this way, those areas were all meant to be “free-flowing” (at least until menopause for women), so it’s kind of like having a colonstomy bag that is never emptied? Just my own analogy. Unfortunately we live in a world where many procedures/drugs are considered normal and no big deal. My heart goes out to women dealing with this and shame on any doctor for not considering there might be a real problem, though I do think that recent pregnancy and breastfeeding (Lots of hormones released recently and currently) could definitely make TLS worse. I think there is a recent advent of more women getting this procedure immediately after having a baby and also younger women having it done than before. This might make it a more recent phenomenon. In dealing with b.c. myself, we did a lot of researching before deciding on the Creighton Model of NFP. Many may scoff at NFP because it’s not a quick fix, but for a committed couple who has similar views on planning their family, it’s GREAT! And since it’s not a quick fix, but something you have to “work” at, it has NO side effects. Blessings to you Heather as you try to figure this out and as you have made yourself vulnerable in sharing, may many others learn and be blessed by you!
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I had a hysterectomy instead of a tubal, mainly because I wanted it all done at once (long story). One of the reasons I chose that option is because my mother had a tubal and she had many, many of the same symptoms you mention in your next post. I was scared if I had a tubal that the same thing would happen to me and I would just end up with the hysterectomy anyway. Something interesting to me, I still have one of my ovaries and after four years I have experienced no pre-menopausal symptoms. Very odd.
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Heather, I had a tubal in September of 2011, and my body completely revolted afterward. This was my fourth pregnancy and fourth delivery, but first c-section and (obviously) only tubal. I wrote about my experience in five parts (here’s the link to part 5, which contains links to the first four parts if you’re interested http://katandgray.blogspot.com/2011/10/part-5-light-at-end-of-tunnel.html ) and am still in the midst of some of the symptoms. My OB and psychiatrist (who I have to see as a result of the insomnia) both say it’s not related to the tubal … but I’m not so sure. I will go read part 2 of your story now!
I too have PTLS after having my TL at 42 it has been down hill since then including joint pain on my right side and now I am pre-menopausal. I am considering a reversal at 46 to perhaps ease the pain. Would you consider doing this as well or have you?
Hi, I also have ptls (severe) and I am also considering a tubal reversal hopefully i will be able to have it done by the end of this year, I had a tubal when I was 27 and it has been a roller coaster physically and emotionally ( crying ,anixety ) and I just want it to stop I am so desperate for relief but I just dont have the money to have a tubal right now and I have not found a doctor that will listen to me they just think it is in my head and that I am depressed . Any suggestions
Wow. I haven’t heard of this before. But I do know how horrible hormones are and how certain procedures effect women differently. After I had my son, I had a copper IUD put in place. I had SO many issues with depression, anxiety, and crazy rage attacks shortly thereafter. For along time, I wrote it off as postpartum depression, adjusting to being a mom, sleep deprivation, and all of that. But as time went on, it didn’t go away. I got lucky in that my IUD moved up into my uterus (yes, I understand that doesn’t sound very lucky, but wait for the end of the story). They had to remove my IUD. Within a few days of my IUD being removed, my depression lessened, the anxiety decreased, and I no longer wanted to kill people. I am convinced that my IUD was the culprit. It’s not the same as your procedure, however, I really think there are so many side effects that can happen with our reproductive systems that NEVER get disclosed or talked about in a clinical setting.
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Everything started when I got my tubes tied in May of 2007! I went to another OBGYN today and he told me that PTLS existed but that the insurance would not cover and he would have to remove my tubes to take care of the problem. He said the tubes had nothing to do with the cycle and at the same time he would put a heated balloon in my uterus to take away the bleeding. I looked at him like he was crazy and left his office in discouraged but not without hope. I felt like he was trying to sell me another lie. So if this didn’t work it would be a hysterectomy and being on hormones for the rest of my life. I spoke to a woman at his office before the appointment and she said she had PTLS and she had a reversal and it took care of the problem. So I don’t understand why the doctor after saying that I had PTLS would not encourage me to get a reversal!!!
I had a tubal after a csection of my 3rd child in 2006. I was urged to do so because I had preeclampsia with my pregnancies. Since then, I have had so many problems. I have been to so many doctors who pretty much tell me I’m okay and give me pills. I stumbled across your blog tonight. This is the first I have ever heard of this. It explains so much. I read that doctors say women are complaining because before they got tubals they took the pill for years and that’s what is causing the symptoms. Withdrawal from the hormones in the pill. I hadn’t taken the pill in years! So that is not what happened. Doctors don’t want to recognize this as a serious issue because so many women have had the procedure done. The amount of lawsuits filed would be insane. They feel if they can keep women thinking it’s all in our head, they stay in the clear. If you want to get a tubal, please please reconsider.
Obviously, I’m more than a little late to the party. BUT. I’ve been dealing with some ovary/uterus issues for the past few months, and the longer this goes on, the more I realize…doctors don’t really have any more idea than we do about what goes on in there. I mean, it’s not like you can put it under a microscope and watch things develop. And things that seem really, really major to a woman in pain…just don’t get a doctor all that excited. (Heard that one from a friend who nurses in the ER.) No, I’m not doctor bashing at ALL. I’m just saying…basically what you are. Do your homework. And trust your gut.
And much love to you, Heather, as you get through this!!!!
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I have had my tubes tied for 18 years. The past 4 have been miserable. I have had menopausal symptoms for the past 12 years atleast. I have mood swings and suffered a divorce after 12 years of marriage and many failed relationships. The fights occurred monthly. Prior to tubal ligation I was a happy, pushover that never knew a period was coming. I feel the tubal changed me..for the worse. I have had many tests run. PMS doesn’t run in my family. My mother never had a tubal and she has never raised her voice in her life. I am her made over except for the unhappiness. I have no mental issues, no childhood stresses or abuse, no hormone imbalance. I have been checked for all medical problems. Doc put me on Prozac in 2005 and I was a zombie..I hated it. He said I had PMDD. But I know it’s from the tubal ligation. All women may not experience this but I have spoken to atleast 15 women in the past years that had tubals and we all have the same symptoms. I can deal with all symptoms but not the mood swings. Stress amplifies them to terrifying. My symptoms since age 30 are anxiety, mood swings, night sweats, hot flashes, breast tenderness that is excrutiating, stabbing pains in the area where my ovaries are, and no sex drive at all.. I have been married to a wonderful man for 7 years and I pray he can know the person I was before this. Seriously considering a tubal reversal. I have read reports that woman experienced real change. A few said no change…what to do?? I am 40 years old.. praying for an answer. Good luck to you :)
Hi I know what your going through. I had my tubes clamped 10 yrs ago and omg dod the symptoms start riggt away. I cry all the time and that never happened. My periods are 10you times worse. I cramp so baf it’s like labor pains the first day. Then my periods heavy for 5you days before it lightens. I have sore full breasts 2 weeks before my period and i’m cranky for 2you weeks. I sweat all the time like menopause.I want this procedure reversed so I could feel alive again. I’m depressed a lot pf the time amd no one qill help me reverse this eithout paying thpusands of dollars. Good luck.
You have no idea how amazing this is–to find this. I had my tubes tied 4 years ago and my life changed drastically. It didn’t happen fast, but steadily my life is not what it was. Of the nearly 40 symptoms, I have 35. My marriage has been near divorce over it. How do you explain to your husband that the idea of sex is repulsive without offending him? I have so many emotions over this I am no where near beginning to sort them out. I go to the doctor May 29th and I feel very sure he is going to say it is in my head. Luckily, since we have found out about this–my husband fully agrees with me that this is what is wrong and that it’s not in my head. The problem is–no insurance company will cover a reversal, and I don’t want to have a hysterectomy at 32! I’m just praying for some answers and for blogs like this that show me I’m not alone (and by extension, not crazy!).
This hospital tied my tubs without my permission left me in excruciating pain and bleeding no one came to check on me but one nurse who complained i was crying to much no doctor never came to check on me to this day I live in pain from the surgery and from not being able to have any more kids and with a disfigure belly and loss of memory by the time I found out the statue of limitation was up it took me 7 years to piece memories together to recollect that day after I had my baby four nurses tried to convince me to tie my tubs I was very a dement about not having it done I ask what else can I do I suggested IUD they told dr lolylld lee he said well I may as well go back to the office I agreed with him next a nurse comes in with a needle I asked her what is tha for she said to relax u I Said i don’t need it I had my baby already well the dr told me to give it to u I said I don’t need it she put it in my I V anyway. I remembered feeling like I was in church worshiping the lord and feeling his presents and Him asking me now do u want your tubs tied. I woke up n pain and today this day im in pain no dr can find where out why this pain is they just give me pain medicine. I will never forget this day it has ruined my complete life i lost my husband and myself my kids lost a mother By the time I had a MRI done it was to late to sue the statue of limitation was up which also makes no since to me because from the time i was sure i knew what happen to prove mentally and medically that’s when time should have started it ruined my mental n physically n emotionally for ever I suffer from these symptoms
Increased Fatigue – Increasing to the point where there are days that all you want to do is sleep. Impossible to keep up with demands of family and work.
Feeling Doom – Like there is a black cloud over your head and you are convinced that something bad is about to happen.
Anxiety Issues – This is quite noticeable in women that have never had anxiety. These women have no idea what they are experiencing or why.
Memory Loss and Foggy Feeling – it feels as though your brain is in a “fog”. Becoming forgetful (which can be very scary).
Skin Issues – Some describe the feeling as though something is crawling on your skin. Acne can also become an issue.
Hair Loss – Scalp thins while hair growth becomes greater on other parts of the body, such as facial hair and hair around nipples.
Migraines – These can be debilitating.
Feeling of pelvic fullness and sharp stabbing pains at ovulation time.
Breast Milk Production Declines- Noticed by women who had multiple children and never had a problem with producing milk before tubal ligation. After tubal ligation they may not have enough milk to meet their baby’s needs on nursing alone.
Changes In Breast – Breasts may become very tender. There may also be a loss of tissue mass.
Menstrual Abnormalities – Periods can be extremely heavy and painful with clotting. Cycle is not regular. None of these things happened before tubal ligation.