IRL

May 12, 2009

Tuesday~May 12, 2009


We sat on the side of the hill in the grass and the sun.

I thought,
This is all I want to do right now.
This is the only place I’d like to be.

We talked about family and faith and life.
We shared a burden or two,
A laugh and then a cry.

It’s different now, you said.
We email, we text, we tweet, we facebook, we blog.

It’s true.
We don’t sit on the side of a hill in the grass and the sun.
Or not enough anyway.
No.
Not enough.


We’ve got just one more thing,
Always another task.
Send this message
return this text
tweet tweet tweet
write a post
forward an email
leave a voicemail

I miss the time when we took the time,
To sit on the side of the hill in the grass and the sun.
More often.

I want to see faces.
I want to hear voices.
More often.
At my table
or in my car,
Around a campfire,
or on the side of a hill in the grass and the sun.

I want you to know my laugh, it’s a crazy one.
I want to see your smile.
I want to watch the color of your eyes
change from fine to sad
or tired to joyful.
I want to sit on the side of a hill, my friends.
More often.

(all photos courtesy of flickr)

{ 47 comments }

Pam at beyondjustmom May 12, 2009 at 7:41 am

I’d love to sit on a hill with you too. Let’s do it sometime.
Pam

Annette Lyon May 12, 2009 at 9:20 am

Amen.

MidnightCafe May 12, 2009 at 9:31 am

Totally.

Kristina P. May 12, 2009 at 9:48 am

I love this, Heather. I love my girlfriends so much.

Motherboard May 12, 2009 at 9:53 am

This was beautiful!

When can I sit on a hill with you?

Jillene May 12, 2009 at 10:07 am

This was AMAZING and I am with MB–when do we get to sit on a hill with you?

Lara May 12, 2009 at 10:10 am

Wonderful. It is so true! I feel like I need to just turn off the computer for a week and remember what it was like not to have it around.

Em May 12, 2009 at 10:30 am

Oh how I adore this. And you.

Sheryl May 12, 2009 at 10:49 am

love, love, love this!!

someday i am going to sit on the side of that hill with you. while i wait for that day, i am going to make time to do that with those in my life right now.

Mylestones May 12, 2009 at 11:27 am

Yes!! I really do want to hear that crazy laugh of yours someday IRL.

Kazzy May 12, 2009 at 12:24 pm

So true! Nice post. I may tweet about it. LOL

Kelly @ Love Well May 12, 2009 at 12:52 pm

Beautiful.

IRL, indeed.

Lee of MWOB May 12, 2009 at 1:05 pm

Hell yes Heather. I just spent a few moments reading your last three posts and all I can say is hell yes. I’ve been away from my blog more recently and I like it. I like it that way. I like you too though and some other cool chicks I have “met” along they way but yeah, what’s life without a hillside and some sun on our faces? Is it real when I think of you I can only see your blog design in my brain? I know it IS real in a way. But the other kind of real is where I need to be more often…..that is for damn sure. My soul needs it.

You rule. And I wish we lived closer so we actually hang. :-)

LexiconLuvr May 12, 2009 at 1:06 pm

Simply gorgeous, as only you can do.

Heidi Ashworth May 12, 2009 at 1:17 pm

It’s like a long lost era, isn’t it?

Kimberly May 12, 2009 at 1:18 pm

So poignant. So true. So heart touching to the girl hiding behind her keyboard instead of calling that friend or the other . . .

minnesotamom May 12, 2009 at 1:32 pm

What are you waiting for, girl? Come on over!! Though I think next time should be sans kiddos, because honestly, I hardly got to talk to you at all.

wendy May 12, 2009 at 2:23 pm

OH, I loved that post so much. Where is the “personal” touch we are all craving. The little moments that can only be felt by experiencing things together!!

Deb May 12, 2009 at 2:43 pm

i get this… and it’s beautiful. BUT, i don’t really have anyone to sit on the side of a hill with. it’s been a very long time since i have talked about anything of real substance. kind of depressing, i guess.

Jen May 12, 2009 at 4:10 pm

that is beautiful. you just said everything that I was thinking.

Megan@SortaCrunchy May 12, 2009 at 4:42 pm

so lovely, so true.

I had a great, wonderful, amazing friend in Texas and we totally would sit somewhere in nature and just talk and talk and talk. I miss her. I miss that. All of these connections? Great for so many things. I haven’t connected with anyone IRL here in OK who would want to sit on a hill and talk with me. not yet anyway.

This was gorgeous.

Mrs4444 May 12, 2009 at 6:07 pm

That photo reminds me of my friend Molly and me and some of our hiking trips (we’re overdue for one!) This is why I am so looking forward to BlogHer and meeting some of my blogging friends IRL! :)

mama-face May 12, 2009 at 6:20 pm

I heard on the Today show this morning that friends are good for your heart. For reals. I’m pretty sure they meant the kind you see face to face.

But, I hope blog friends count a little bit too.

You make me happy; that has to count for something.

Octamom May 12, 2009 at 6:29 pm

Just beautiful~

Blessings~

Blessed May 12, 2009 at 6:44 pm

I’m ready for a hill and a friend and some sunshine too… of course first I have to get a friend that likes that kind of thing close enough that we can go do it. All of my good IRL friends moved away over the past few years. Now we do all our talking via cell phone – it just isn’t the same!

jen@odbt May 12, 2009 at 6:45 pm

That was beautiful. I’m inspired to find a friend to sit and chat with now. No email, no cell – just face to face time. Thanks.

That Girl in Brazil May 12, 2009 at 7:42 pm

*pats green grass*

come on over!

Kim May 12, 2009 at 9:03 pm

This is beautiful Heather.

Tracey - Just Another Mommy Blog May 12, 2009 at 11:25 pm

I love sitting on hills. And park benches. And the computer, too. My time here with you isn’t any less important to me than my time spent face to face. It’s just different…

3 Bay B Chicks May 12, 2009 at 11:27 pm

I have a friend that I think you should meet. She and I have known each for years…actually met during our undergrad at college, when our not-yet husbands were rooming together.

Her writing reminds me of yours. It is lovely, poetic, and often makes me tear up.

Her name is Susannah: http://goodbuthard.blogspot.com/.

xoxo

F.

Ronda's Rants May 13, 2009 at 6:50 am

This is wonderfully written and IF I could write I wouldn’t have put these feelings down on paper/blog…
things have changed!

albert & angela fontenot May 13, 2009 at 7:15 am

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albert & angela fontenot May 13, 2009 at 7:15 am

Heather,
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albert & angela fontenot May 13, 2009 at 7:15 am

Heather,
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Heather of the EO May 13, 2009 at 7:17 am

Tracey,

It’s true, my time on the computer with friends is important. I love it, or I wouldn’t do it so much :) My post wasn’t meant to take away from that or to say it isn’t important. It was inspired by a day with one of my closest friends, one I don’t see as much anymore largely because we figure we’ve connected after texting and facebook. We talked about the difference in face to face communication, and how sometimes we simply miss doing it more often.

I tell her how rich my blogging relationships are too, though. This post just wasn’t about that. I hope I didn’t come across as taking away from that. Wasn’t my intention at all. I love all you bloggy people too much to mean that :)

Angie May 13, 2009 at 7:22 am

Beautiful… absolutely beautiful. Now I’m closing my laptop to sit on some grass and watch my kiddos enjoy this gorgeous day. :)

charrette May 13, 2009 at 9:57 am

Perfect. And beautifully, simply stated.

I have a handful of friends i’d love to sit on the side of a grassy hill with right now. And one of them is you.

Debbie May 13, 2009 at 11:57 am

Me too! I hope to do some sitting this summer. And I sure do wish I could sit on a hillside with you:)

Abra May 13, 2009 at 2:56 pm

Yep. What else can I say?

Adventures In Babywearing May 13, 2009 at 2:59 pm

This seriously made me cry.

Mommy Mo May 14, 2009 at 1:21 am

I want to know your laugh as I have a pretty crazy (and LOUD) one too.

Bonnie May 14, 2009 at 7:26 am

Oh that sounds soooo good. Made me want to reconnect with old friends I don’t get to see very often.

Muthering Heights May 14, 2009 at 10:12 pm

Me too.

Eowyn May 15, 2009 at 2:33 pm

Can I come visit. You called out the longing that I have all the time. More people, and more hills!

jubilee May 16, 2009 at 11:44 am

Sigh . . . Let it be.

Tooj May 17, 2009 at 12:11 pm

Yes, sitting outside. Instead of in at this computer. Hmmm, leaving this comment seems totally contradictory, then, doesn’t it? :)

Jessica May 21, 2009 at 8:16 pm

ahhhh . . . me too. sigh. (beautiful post by the way)

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